The way you want me to be!

I thought about it last evening
But couldn't really make up my mind,
Determination, dedication I definitely possess
But may be I'm a different kind.

I seem to be loyal and faithful
forever true and very nice,
But don't just go by looks only
instead take your heart's advice.

What is it that you want?
It is upto you to decide,
Your confusion you have to rub off
From truth you cannot hide.

If you want a winner
I can be one,
If you want a dreamer
that I can become.

If you want a perfectionist
try yourself too,
If you want an optimist
time can carry me through.

Or better I give you an opportunity
to paint a blank canvas the way you want to,
colour me with all your favourite shades
I think that's the best, you could do.

That is when I can fit in place
and be the desired one too,
Not only will I gain respect
But be; just the way you want me to!

(this is just an interpretation of "surrender" in love! please do not interpret it as though the person's personality is open to changes.it is only the way of loving that needs to be defined because all of us need different things from different relationships)